What's the fear factor?

26th Apr 2012

ADJUSTMENTS This word is most common and likely to happen always around us. For example , In a relationship. She Adjusts her attitude for him, he adjusts his attitude for her, or even we adjusts ourselves to our course/job that we don't wanna do. The fact is that everyone always wanna settle-down in life. Is that fair? In my view the word "Adjustment " should be banned. Why we adjusts to a situation that we don't like to happen? Why we're quitting ?? All these are happening just coz of the fact that we all are afraid of something. What's that fear-factor??Let's have a brief discussion on some common questions that we asks ourselves

1. Can I finish this task?

Well ,the answer is YES,YOU CAN. If you can't then who can? Always have a faith in your abilities, trust your thoughts & dedicate yourself to the TASK. I'm sure the you will be CHAMPION. It is better to conquer yourself than to win a thousand battles. Then the victory is yours. It cannot be taken from you, not by angels or by demons, heaven or hell.

2. Am I good enough for this?

The answer for question is a quote by Sree Buddha .  "You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love
and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection."

3. What to do next?

This is the best question that you can always asks to yourself. When you're in a crowd there will be lots of well-wishers and advisers around you to tell you to do something. First of all realize the fact that they'll be with you in your good times. So, Always hear THE VOICE OF YOUR HEART. Be an OPTIMIST always. No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.